Well..
things have been going soo miuch better!!
I dont know why.. and i dont know how to explain it.. but i FEEL it
and we are having FUN.. clean fun..
we still have our moments.. our spats.. but they arent as intense.. I dont feel as attacked

We went to AAA to do our TripTix thingii and it turns out the route we are to take is atleast 5,200 miles..
MUCH too long.. so we need to prioritize and figure out how to make it happen.
Or if we want to go the shorter/faster way.. spend more time playing in Yellowstone and Badland and then on the way back when we have more money go the southern route...

we shall see
but for now
i am happy :)